Nancy’s Relationship Interaction Map
A written map of where your care currencies, standards, responsibilities, and protective patterns meet.
Relationship Compass
You are both trying.
But what one person gives is not always what the other experiences as care.
One of you says, “I do a lot.”
The other says, “I still feel alone.”
Relationship Compass shows where your effort keeps missing, what each person actually recognizes as care, and how to build a shared way of supporting one another.
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Nancy’s Relationship Interaction MapPrivate two-hour sessionSpecific agreementsShared operating agreement
Where care goes missing
The love is present. The effort is missing in transit.
One person counts care through providing, solving, building, or responding when asked.
The other counts care through anticipation, presence, relief, or not having to ask.
Both people can be giving. Both people can still feel deprived.One partner is deep in work meant to support the family. The other is tracking the children, dinner, appointments, and what must happen next.
One experiences a costly interruption. The other experiences one more responsibility they had to notice and assign.
“I am doing everything I can” meets “Why do I still feel like I am carrying this alone?”
Equal standing from the beginning
One of you found this first. Both of you shape what happens next.
Usually one person discovers Relationship Compass and begins the conversation.
The invitation is to look together at how each of you gives care, carries responsibility, and contributes to the life you share—then decide what would help you work better as a team.
Both perspectives shape the Interaction Map. The final agreement includes only what both of you choose.
The premium value
See the interaction. Talk about it together. Decide how you want to live.
Private two-hour session with Nancy
Nancy helps each person understand what the other is protecting and separates sincere intent from experienced impact.
Specific practices
Responsibility splits, boundaries, and care practices designed around the life you actually share.
Couple-authored operating agreement
Only the choices both people ratify become part of the final shared agreement.
Facilitated by Nancy
Recognition becomes useful when both people can choose from it.
Nancy helps each person understand what the other is protecting, separate sincere intent from experienced impact, and turn mutual recognition into choices both people ratify.
How it works
Bearings prepare the map. The relationship work happens together.
Begin Relationship Compass
Purchase Relationship Compass directly. Partner confirmation and scheduling happen after payment.
Nancy prepares the Interaction Map
Nancy prepares the Interaction Map from both partners’ completed private Bearings.
Meet privately on Zoom
Nancy facilitates the full two-hour session. Both partners examine what each person protects, what effort counts as care, and where responsibility is currently unclear.
Author the agreement
You choose specific responsibility splits, boundaries, and care practices. Nothing enters the shared operating agreement until both people ratify it.
Private first. Shared by choice.
Nothing becomes shared simply because you are a couple.
Each person reviews their private material separately. The shared map includes only the patterns both people agree to examine. Nothing enters the operating agreement until both people ratify it.
What you can leave with
A clearer way to care for the life you share.
You will leave with a clearer understanding of what each person protects, what effort counts as care, and the responsibilities and practices you chose together.
- Nancy facilitates a private session on Zoom
- The full two hours are included
- Both partners and all written materials are included
- Nancy confirms the preparation timeline and scheduling window after payment
- Withdrawal and cancellation terms are confirmed before payment
Relationship Compass is designed for couples who have both completed their Bearings and freely choose to participate. Clinical, legal, financial, or safety crises require qualified support.
Before you begin
Questions, answered.
01Is this a compatibility test?+
No. Relationship Compass does not score the relationship or decide whether you belong together. It helps two people examine how care, responsibility, and pressure are experienced in the life they share.
02Do we need Bearings first?+
Yes. Relationship Compass is designed for couples who have both completed their Bearings and freely choose to participate.
03What birth information is needed?+
Each partner needs their birth date, exact birth time, and birth city. Nancy will confirm preparation requirements after both partners choose to participate.
04Will my partner see my private Bearing?+
No. Each person reviews their private material separately. The shared map includes only the patterns both people agree to examine.
05When do we pay?+
Relationship Compass is purchased directly for $1,000. Partner confirmation and scheduling happen after payment.
06Is a Gift Bearing credited?+
Yes. Any $50 Gift Bearing already purchased is credited in full.
07Is this therapy?+
No. Relationship Compass is a facilitated interpretive and planning experience. Clinical, legal, financial, or safety crises require qualified support.
Relationship Compass
Begin with both people in the frame.
Partner confirmation and scheduling happen after payment.
Relationship Compass$1,000
BEGIN RELATIONSHIP COMPASS — $1,000→
Includes both partners, Nancy’s Couple Interaction Map, one private two-hour Zoom session, and your written Couple Compass plan.